Showing posts with label passive-aggressive. Show all posts
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Wednesday, May 3, 2023

Sometimes the Worst is the Best!

 "Why the best day of my life." 

was the day my wife called 911!"

Grateful for Getting Freedom 

and having fun sharing about it!



As I said, "The best day of my life," was the day my wife finally called 911! Let me tell you why! 

That was the day I was awakened to see MY PROBLEM.

Before that, my total focus was on others! I could only really see the shortcomings of the people around me. I thought they needed to change. I was asleep in the light and didn't want to see, "MY PROBLEM!"

(slowly click arrow x 2 to see video)


Today, I am So Grateful for our Savior Jesus! He saw my problem and gave himself for me. He opened my eyes so I could see my hidden forms of destructive anger!

But this didn't begin to happen until after I received a little motivational help from the local police๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍♂️๐Ÿ‘ฎ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ‘จ‍⚖️and a judge.

Sadly, without this motivational opportunity I don't think my practice of citizenship or religiousness alone, would have ever motivated me to make the kind of changes that would change my life. 

P.S. Experiencing this, "motivational ๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍♂️๐Ÿ‘ฎ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ‘จ‍⚖️opportunity," is behind my reasoning for opposing the decriminalizing of drugs; both gateway and the, "harder," varieties, as well as the decriminalizing of so many other crimes that ensnare perpetrators and bring harm victims.

For more on this topics of, "Misguided Inclusiveness," and the true, costs of. "Embracing Lawlessness." Click the blog link below. 

When I finally stopped and allowed Jesus to change me. When I sought and accepted correction through His word and through those who followed it in my Celebrate Recovery support group, He empowered me to walk in a new way! A much better way for me and everyone around me! On the day to day level, this was more lifechanging than any of the classes I have ever taken, and even more successful than my back and hip replacement surgeries!

In time I was able to lead others and was asked to lead an anger management group at our church. There I shared what Jesus had done in my life and got opportunities to encourage and challenge others. Over time, I also compiled a manual for forming anger management accountability groups, and for convenience, I put the manual on line to
be viewed on our cell phones. 

See the manual it at (link) not picture below...
I also have a you-tube channel, and created a (You-Tube Playlist) that auto-plays a series of inspirational talks about understanding and overcoming life challenges and making healthy connections with others. And mixed in, the most important connection, our connection with our one and only, "Higher Power." 

See the playlist at (link) not picture. 



And so in closing, May Your Life be Changed as you find the strength and comfort that comes with learning to accept reality. 

May you experience genuine fellowship with God and his encouraging followers. 

May you experience ever increasing freedom from all addictive behaviors. 

And may He extinguish the destructive fires of past and present toxic emotions and replace them with His Peace. 

In the Bible, John 14:27 states, "Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful."

In other word... May you experience 
true Sobriety